can a boy and a girl be true freind ?
Forum topic Submitted by gauravca2008 on Sat, 10/03/2007 - 10:04am. in ::
i asking everbody that can a girl and boy be atrue freind besides lovers.
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why not
HAI RANI U ARE FROM
i know sex is neccesary.....
but as without it relation has been goin it wil b best in d world..
i know sex is neccesary.....
but as without it relation has been goin it wil b best in d world..
your comment is right with out relastionship sex is not right
hi rani can v be friends
ABSOLUTELY YES!
In childhood I had many and I still have few.
Friendship is in the mind. Bodies do get attracted sometimes but once you are not sexually starving or don't know what is sex, only then a boy and girl (man and woman)respects each others virtues much more than their bodies, only then they can be true friends for each other.
Every boy and girl (man or woman) should try this and understand the virtues of the opposite sex. Ultimately, you need to become the other!
Ardha + Naari + Eshwara
Ardha Naari means Ardha Purusha also! So We all must try to become complete by collecting what we don't have by birth.
Only a friend can share completely. Wife, sister, mother (husband, brother and father for females) cannot share their self with you completely. They'll surely hide something. But only through friendship you can understand the other gender and understanding is becoming.
So become what you are NOT and be complete!
Love,
Jack.
u r absolutely rite jack. but at d same time der r xceptions 4 everythng in dis world.d present day frndshps r not xactly wat u said.regardless of d persons or gender in frndshp it is always d best relationshp in d world in past,present,future.i like ur views.
Hi dear
U can call me for good relationship....
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y nt.... a boy n a gal can b a gud frnds infect best frnds lik me n my dear frnd :).... so enjoy...
never never they can not be if they make friends there will be foul relationship between them any ime any where NO DOUBT
y not???
gals n guys can be real frnds...
but it must be from 2 side...
wanna be my frnd??
if yes.. thn u vl come to knw wat is good friendship.......
hai yaar i am also agree with u........................
yeah of course boy & girl can be a true friend.
This is known to every body..So y is there a discussion like this..every body has good and best friends..
Yes, Christine, I also agree with you. Guls and Gals can be good friends. Lets be friends.
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no probs!!!!!
matlab???
kis bare mea bol rehe ho??
frnd bana ne mea ya mere comment pe??
Yea true friendship doesnt differentiate between gender.... a boy and a girl can be gr8 frens :)
yes
hey..well why not!!!
well it all depends on perception of the other person.a person can always keep his priorities straight..if find there is no problem in it...you shoul be clear in what do u want from the relationship u want to get into..
duniya mein sirf do hi cast hai ek male ek female to phir kyun nahi ladka aaur ladki dost ho sakte hai
whats the relationship between your cast and frndship...duniya,do cast and ladka ladki frndship....no relation with eachother what so ever...
ummmmm....
nooyaaaaaaa..!!
jst tryng 2 confuse u..
ofcos yes YES yes..!!
y not ...............relationship always begins from mind.If ur mind considers somebody as a true frnd may be boy or girl,then there is no doubt exists yaar.
yeah they can be gud frnds
but not the best frnds
this is wat i feel
well i think its difficult ...n most of all depands on individual...but still a boy n gal can be gud frndz but not best ...i mean cant share every thing which a boy can share wid boy or a gal can share wid a gal..
A gal & guy can be good and true friends. As long as they are not attrated to each other.
ya cn be ...
if ur mind is nt corrupt......
well if you just need a friend why can't a girl be yr friend..but as time passes a boy does need a gf and probbly the same goes for girls.. since most of the time we have friends around us.. boys mey get tempted to find gf out of their friends that are girls and the same goes for girls..
well it might not always be true...
just that these matters need to talkd out rather than kept under wraps for long..
well if you just need a friend why can't a girl be yr friend..but as time passes a boy does need a gf and probbly the same goes for girls.. since most of the time we have friends around us.. boys mey get tempted to find gf out of their friends that are girls and the same goes for girls..
well it might not always be true...
just that these matters need to talkd out rather than kept under wraps for long..
Yes, it would be suprb friendshp
no chance,,boss
gurls neeed boys to use n thro them....
naaam frendship ka zaroooor hota hai
its difficult but not impossiple....
it is definitely true
A guys a gal can definitely be friends. It's all about having a pure heart and eventually the personality type.
nnooo,, way,,,,
yaar---
u r asking dis quest in 21st century !!!!!
don u think its a bit illogical 1 !!!
WE r clear with our thoughts dude, but girls are not, we need to make them know about 21st Century
I don find a reason y not.... boy n gal can be true friends... only if either of them dint started the friendship with any feelings in their heart for other.... coz then they either end up loving each other or end of friendship....
Yes......it's possible .....a girl n a boy can be true friends....i have experienced it. :)
i also think so
hi
yupe
yes! they can be if they r committed to other
yes,,,,,,,
ha ho sakte hai.........
nooooooooo..........is not possible.......
Y not? But after a period of time, they agree to convert their relationship in Love affair.
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friendship is mutual understanding it can b with any human doesn't matter the gender
no way everytime a boy and girl become friends it ends into love or broke away
its my experience
No, in between boy and girl there are more then friendship and less then lovers relationship. It can be ur girlfriend but not true friend.
After all Friendship between 2 persons means understanding each other & helping in the time of need (after asking or even without asking).So where does the question of Girl & Boy comes in the definition of Friendship.
Definetly if 2 people are friends(if they are) it doesnot matters whether they are boy & gal or boy & boy or gal & gal.
yes yes yes - they can be & JUST friends...................
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well it depends on the girl. if she's seein sum1 then she wud need anthr frnd to complain to him bout her bf, his nagging habbits n all...but if she's single then she might be lookin 4 a serious reltshn..as boys r scrd of commtmnt she might strt wit being frnds n then go 2 d nxt step..got it??
yes, they can be, but its the boys who make a mistake and spoil a healthy friendship.
There should be no gender bias in friendship. A boy and a girl can definitely be friends.
yeah they can be...lovers can be a true friends but d no. is few
da point is wats does true frndship imply....u hav 2 b true frnds evn wit ur lover....the if the question relates2 a guy n gal havin a plutonic relationship i think its only possible if both of dem involved in different relationships..otherwise u tend2get feelins 4 the other person....its true...
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yes boy & a girl could be best friends not being lovers...
cmon dude ... where are u from??
the gender gap is a thing of past ... its all about the individual that we are
of course.. no problem at all...
Why not. I don't see any problem in that.
Don't see why not? Some of my dearest and longest lasting friends have been guys. (just completed silver jubilee with two of them!) These friendships have lasted from girlhood, through teens, twenties and now thirties. Then there are a few formed more recently, but I know will last a lifetime. So, from practical experience i can say it happens.
if a boy n a girl have to establish any relationship besides being lover then they should not be hesistate being called brother n sister.after all they can remain true friend even with this relationship.if this is not so then i must say there is something wrong with them.
Of course they can be. I say this because i have seen this happening with my friends.
Well after reading so many comments I may conclude that more ppl are in favour that a Boy and Girl can be best friends.
I sincerely believe that a Gal and a Guy can become best friends...it all depends on how they both feel for each other...if their soul is clear then there is are no issues.But if they develop feelings for each other then the problems arise per se.
Hey Christine, Sid and all boyz-gurlz friendship lovers I am with u.
Yes a boy and a girl can be friends if the boy is gay
Let b frnds then
i dont know about ur boyfriends,but i have lots of girlfriends,they willnot tell u that i am GAY .GOODNIGHT
Yes girl & boy can be a good friend if both have same understandings of Real friendship
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where is the doubt
Mythili
Friendship.....is forever.
To roam around and keep on talking without any topic.
FRIEND SHIP is a relation that cant be described bcoz it is an end less one, ya as per me a friend ship between a boy and girl will be true untill and unless some enters in to middle of them to spoil the thoughts
its just the nature's law for opposite forces to get attracted to eachother...if a boy and gal are not attracted to each other then there is something wrong in either of them which makes them unattractive. Its but natural that they may like eachother initially but if they over come the attraction and remain close but not going beyond limits then after some time they will become good friends as they have passed through the attraction phase and not any more attracted for their sexuality.If one is able to share everything with a frnd of opposite sexuality and still remain frnds then their frndship can be considered pure and matured.,
yes y not girl's and boy's are made for each other.
A boy and a girl can never be true friends. I can write this on stamp paper.
Well, girls and boys come to know each other and consider themselves to be friends only till the time they fall in love with each other. However, if any one or both of them had a partner beforehand, then the story is different, its all about a parallel relationship then!!!!! Hehehe.....
i think dat a boy and a girl can b a good friend but up to a limit...means a boy and a girl can not be as good as "boy and boy" or "girl and girl" friend.....
Yes, why not but some time it depends on the circumstances as well.
Why not? However Two freinds (Boy and Girl) became Lover but Two Lover (Boy and Girl) not became Freind.
ummmmmmm ha ho sakte hai....but they should have mutual understanding ....n they should be loyal towards each other..
S boy & girl can be true frnds.
May not hold true at all times....... mostly ends up in a mess !!!
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YES A BOY AND A GIRL BECOME A GOOD FRIEND
YES A BOY AND A GIRL BECOME A GOOD FRIEND
Why the question is ... off course yes
I knw they can bt expectioN IS ALWAYs there
Dipents wel i dnt want 2 explain it in brif way wel yes they can b goof frnds unless an untill they r nt geting physical attracted 2wards eachother
This is a silly topic.
I don't feel this topic needs any further discussion. Since from the Days of Adam and Eve; the world has come to present state only bcoz of friendship between the two. I do agrees that there are issues but without friendship there wouldn't have been any LOVE and as all know that whithout Love the sole existence of Humanity would have been not possible.
Yes Ofcourse dey can b true frendz
S offcouse they can be very good frnds.
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yes, they can be true friends....but the more friendly they are with each other, the more attracted they get to each other. simple n clear!
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100% True friendship does not know gender and friendship is not gender bies.
True friendship is a pure and god gifted phenomeno which can be there between two males, 2 females, and a girl and a boy, between old and one young, a rich and a poor.
True friendship goes beyond, casts, religions, financial status, social status, age, gender, educational qualification.
so im sure 100% that a boy and a girl can be true and good friends and there can not be a sexual attraction, or love or romance or physical relations.
yes if they want to be good friends they will be or they end up in a mess when they change their friendship into the unwanted ship.
hehehe lol nice one
yes...they can be good friends before marriage...
after marriage, good/ pure friendship between a girl n a guy is not seen proper in the eyes of society...
it also depends on the spouse of both.
ofcourse they can be good frnds
naari kai partee pourush ka akarshan sawabhik hai.
its upto d person how do dey take tat relation
yea it can be yaar...
Yes I agree .......
Yes, it is possible if they understand each other and limitation of relationship.
ya...why not
Why do u get such a silly doubt? Friendship has no gender barrier.
Yeah Girl and a guy can be good friends only if girl is not beautiful so that guy will never think of her in other way.And vaysa versa. Or a girl is a tom boy so that you never treat her like a girl but as one of ur guy friend.....If This is the case then its possible.
According to me ,a Girl & a Guy can definitely be the best of the best friends,there is no doubt about it :-)
yaa boy and girl can br tru frend and like wise u are u are now now my frend
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why not
ABSOLUTELY YES!
In childhood I had many and I still have few.
Friendship is in the mind. Bodies do get attracted sometimes but once you are not sexually starving or don't know what is sex, only then a boy and girl (man and woman)respects each others virtues much more than their bodies, only then they can be true friends for each other.
Every boy and girl (man or woman) should try this and understand the virtues of the opposite sex. Ultimately, you need to become the other!
Ardha + Naari + Eshwara
Ardha Naari means Ardha Purusha also! So We all must try to become complete by collecting what we don't have by birth.
Only a friend can share completely. Wife, sister, mother (husband, brother and father for females) cannot share their self with you completely. They'll surely hide something. But only through friendship you can understand the other gender and understanding is becoming.
So become what you are NOT and be complete!
Love,
Jack.
They sure can be!
I have two best frens n bth of em r of opposite sex.
It dusnt matter what sexes u r.
what matters is what you want from a relationship.
if its just comfort u need, u can be frens wid with ne1 who understands u.
If thrs sth else that is wrong feeelings in your mind.
You cease beingh frens!
Yess offcouse they can be very good frnds..
Now things are changed there is no difference girls & guys.
ya..........ofcourse they can be very close frnds..
it's depend on thr understanding...........
they should be very clear for each other....
No it is not possible with out romance
ALL FREINDSHOP MEAN R ONLY SHARING PROBLEM EACH OTHER,IT'S DEPEND NATURE OF PROBLEM.LIKE SEX.
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Why not girl and boy can be a true friends.The friendship chain between boy & girl is more strong than friendsip between boy & boy.
Yes , a boy and a girl can be true friends.
Unless you have something happening in your mind, or you tried to be in friend with that person (he/she) so that you can develop it into a love relationship. Its basically how our intentions are, dont we have sisters / brothers who are close, we dont think of physical relationship with them, right?
Similarly a boy and a gal can be good friends, i personally quite a few of them, some of them are 30-40 yrs old friendship. If you tried to make friendship with someone because you are attracted to that person physically or emotionally, then things can take a ugly turn in future course. As long as we consider the relationship as pure friendship, you can be a true friend to a boy/girl
Yes, they can until they can not share their secrets with any other person.
yes come and frienship with me and see......
Yes, Ofcourse they can be Good Friends.
But now and then some mistakes may happen, if they cooperate each other then, it will be a very good relationship.
KYO NAHI YAR BEST FRIEND HO SAKTE HAI. BASS APNE IRADE AUR MAAN KO SAAF RAKHO TO BAN GAYE DOST .
pritha you r funny, the boy & girl can be good friends not if the boy is gay , but also when the girl is bad looking, dumbass,pakao,faltoo,mad,handicapped also.
YES
WHY NOT?THEY CAN BE GOOD FRIENDS
big nooooooooooo.
or may be possible
cant say also
let it go yaaar . its all bullshit crap
WHY NOT?THEY CAN BE GOOD FRIENDS
why not but they have to decide&know about each other
yes they can
yes
Yes boy & girl could good friends
Hi all here, looking for good friends
Hi this is pritam yes boy and girl can be
Good friends if any 1 want to get the
experiance can be free to be my friend
I stay in mumbai in ghatkopar thanks to
you all take care. And my regards to you
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Hi this is pritam yes boy and girl can be
Good friends if any 1 want to get the
experiance can be free to be my friend
I stay in mumbai in ghatkopar thanks to
you all take care. And my regards to you
all if any 1 wants to mail me can mail me
on pritam37@yahoo.com